Shaadi Kaise Kare Nikah Kaisa Hona Chahiye Bad Rituals In Marriage All about shaadi

Shaadi Kya Hai, Aur Kaisi Honi Chahiye Nikah In Islam, Marriage Rules In Islam.



shaadi kaisi honi chahiye mangni shaadi in islam
shaadi aur mangni in islam kaise kare?

Shaadi (marriage) In islam me ibadat hai kabhi farzz, kabhi wajib, or aksar baar sunnat, 

Farzz,:- Iska matlab or details iss tarah samajhlen ki Agar yeh yakin ho ki nikah nahi karega to zinaa me mubtala hojaega to iss surat me nikah karna farz hai ab aisi halat me nikah nahi karega to gunahgaar hoga

Wajib,:- agar mehar or nano nafqah yani kharcha roti dene par qudrat ho aur galbae shehwat ke sabab zinaa ya bad nigahi ya musht zani me mubtala hone ka andesha ho to iss surat me nikah karna wajib hai agar nahi karrga to gunahgaar hoga

Sunnat, :- agar mehar or

 Kharchaa roti + miyan bibi ke jo huqooq hote hai in sab ko pura karne par qadir (agree) ho or shehwat ka ziyadah galba na ho to aisi surat me nikaah karna sunnate moaakidah hai ab agar na kare to gunah hai ki arhe huee rehna achhi baat nahi
Agar haraam se bachne ya ittabae sunnat ya aulaad ka husool ki wajah se nikaah kare to ajro sawaab bhi paega or agar sirf lazzat ka husool ho ya shehwat ko pura karne ka maksad ho to ajar vo sawaab nahi paega magar haan nikah behar haal ho jaega
Ab agar yeh andesha ho ki nikah karne ki surat me naano nafqa yani roti kharcha pani nahi de sakega to aisi sirat me nikah karna makruh (na pasndidah) kaam hai
Haraam:- agar yeh yakin ho ki nikah karne ki surat me roti kharcha aur jaroori baaten puri nahi kar paega to ab iss surat me nikaah karna haram hai or jahannum me le jane wala kaam hai aisi situetion me shehwat ko todne ke liye rozaa rakhha jae insha allah khwahisun ka behtreen ilaaj roza hai

Magar hindustan me mojoodah zamane me nikah un betuki or haram rasmun aur fizool kharchiyun ki wajah se wabale jaan ban gaya hai  iska name shaadi khana aabadi hai magar ab in rasmun ne shaadi khana  barbaadi bana dala kyunki issme ladke or ladki donun ke gharun ki tabaahi aati hai nikah ke mutaaliq 3 tarah ki rasmen hain
Kuchh to woh jo nikaah se pehle ki jati hain or kuchh nikaah ke baad


1) Ladki ki talaash yani mangni sagaai2) Date fix hona yani tareekh muqarrar hona3) Fir nikaah + uske baad chothi yani dulhan ka shadi ke baad 4 baar maaike mama baba ke ghar jana etc.

   .shaadi (Nikah) mein hone wali 3 big mistacks kya aap bhi shamil hain?

   .Smart (khubsurat) Banne Ke Liye Kya Kare Khubsurti ab Aapki Mutthi Mein



Shaadi Mein Hone Wali Buri Rasmen Or Hamara Samajh 

Mangni Engagmant  Har  maa baap ki bas 1 hi khawahish hoti hai ki mere bete ko aisa rishta mile jahan se ziyadah jehaz mile bike zewraat aur baqi chijen sab dene wale gharane ko dhoondte firte hai jiss se ameer se ameer aadmi bhi faqeer banjata hai aur woh bhi sirf apni naak bachane ki khatir jhooti gizool kharchi karne walun ko jabki quraan wo hadees me shaitaan ke bhai bataya gaya hai iss soch ki hi yeh den hai ki aaj tak gareeb gharun ki bachiyan ladkiyan ghar ki chaar 4 diwarun me qaidi hokar bethi hui hain jabki hakikat yeh hai ki jo maaldari ko dekhkar shadi karta hai uski life 70% unsuccessful hi hoti hai yeh hadees ki baat yeh jabki jo deendari ko dekhkar gareebi me rishte karte hain unki life ko aap khud dekho ki woh kam me hi successfull life guzarte hai aisa iss liye hota hai ki jo deendar hoga woh kabhi bhi apni bibi bachhun ke haqq ko nahi maarega balki apne hisab se har fard ka haqq adaa karne ki full koshish karega to zahir hai ki sab laazmi khush honge or kisi tarah ki koi shikayat but nahi hogi kaash meri qaum iss bas iss baat ko dill se qabool karke apne bachun ke rishte karne ki koshish kare to insha allah 99% apni life ko successfull bana sakte hai


Date fix tareekh muqarar No.2 par baat aati hai date fix ki ab issme bhi itni khurafaat hoti hai ki puchhne ki baat nahi hota yun hai ki ladke ki taraf se hazarun rupey kharch karke 1 toly yani ghar ke buzurgun se bacha tak sabhi ladki ke ghar par jate hai or fir ladki ki taraf se hazaarun paise kharch karke jode kapde un tamam logun ko diya jata hai jo ladke ki taraf se aate hain ab ladki ke ghar par khane pine ke liye dana chugga ho ya na ho magar apne rishte daarun ki nazrun me achhe dikhne ki khatir sab kuchh danw par laga diya jata hai aksar to yahan tak dekha gaya hai ki qarzz lekar shoq pure kiye jaate hain fir wahi qarzz 1 din sood ki shakal me panapta jata hai jise pura karne ki khatir zindgi bhar kamate raho or chukate raho

       .Banjhpan Ka Desi Ilaj Aulad Na Hone Ke Karan Wajah janiye Asani Se

Aaj hamare samaaj ka aisa mahol ho chuka ki jo ghar par gae huwe logun ki dilli tamannah puri nahi  karenge to uss rishte ko hi tod denge par islam ke batae hue raste ko ikhtiyaar karte hue inko sharam mehsoos ho rahi hai or 1 taraf pure ghar me sirf in bekaar ki rasmun ki wajah se matam ho raha hota hai kash meri qaum ke samajh me itni si baat aajae ki nikaah ka matlab (jodna) ke hota hai to fir hum kyun inko bikhairne ki koshish kar rahe hain kyun islam ki pyari si taaleem ko thukrakar gairun ki chaal chal rahe hai islam me to kahin bhi kisi bhi kitaab me yeh tumhare  dastoor nahi likhe hue hain fir kyun ham bhatak rahe hai bass itna kehna kafi hai ki islam ki taaleem ko apnao sunnate sarkar ko apni aadat banao fir dekho tumhare gharun par rishtun ki kaisi line lagti hai or sirf ghar ke 1 ya 2 fard ko ladki ke ghar par bhejo or faqat chae ya sharbat hi pe sabar karo date fix karo itne aasaan kaam koitna lamba karne ki jarurat hi nahi fir aisi bewaqufi kyun


Shadi or barbadi Iske baad baari ati hai shadi ki jiski rasmun ne achhe achhun ki kamar ko tedha kar ke rakh diya or baat iss maqam tak pahunch gai ki 1 baap jab ghar me beti padah hoti hai to be chare ki roh kaanp jaati hai darr lagta hai ki ab rasmen puri kaise hogi isi tention me achhi khasi zindgi 1 bojh lagti hai or bojh hi nahi balki waqt se pehle hi insaan ki jawani quwwat or ehsaas ko noch leti hai or waqt se pehle budhaa bana deti hai kaash koi samjhao in nadaanun ko ki agar beti bojh hoti to kasam allah paak ki sarkar alehissalam ke ghar par 4 _ 4 betyan kabhi paidah nahi hoti magar yeh bhi sach hai ki yeh sab hamari betuki rasmun ki hi barkat hai jo aisa din dekhne ko mil raha hai halanki beti to khuda ki neamatun me se 1 neamat hai fir yeh zehmat kaise ban gai ya fir humne bana daali iski tafseel insha allah aapko agli post me details se bataunga jab tak isi par iktifa karlen or mere dostun iss massage ko har shakhs ke kanun me kiti ki tarah bharden jab koi baat bane allah apne pyarun ke sadqe humko deene islam par chalne ki tofeeq ata farmae
Maine kehdi tune sun li yeh to koi baat nahin
Jab dill pe lage dill me utre tab koi baat bane

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