Shaadi Aur Rukhsati India & Pak Marriage In Islam And Bad Rituals Rasm e widai

Shaadi (marriage) aur Rukhsati ki rasmen Or hamare samaaj ki barbaadi 

Shaadi (marriage) mein kya karte hain, & kya karna chahiye, kya shadadi (nikah) ka matlab yahi hai ki logun ko razi kare aur sunnat e rasool ko bhool jaen, nikah sunnat hai magar aaj isko khail (game) bana dala 

Hi friends pichhli post me aapko shaadi ke taaluq se bataya ki date fix mangni aur betuki rasmun se kaise hamara samaaj barbaad hota ja raha hai aaj shaadi aur rukhsati ke bare me baat karenge 


Shaadi kaisi ho,islamic marriage,nikah rukhsati,
Shaadi Kaisi Honi Chahiye?

nikah ke time 2 Type ki rasmen hoti hain kuchh dulhe ke ghar ki jati hain aur kuchh jo dulhan ke ghar ki jati hain dulha  ke to yeh hota hai ki dulhe ko naee (barber) gusal deta hai aur wahi kapde badalwata hai, laal rang ki pagdi  baandh kar us par sunheri gota lapet diya jaata hai, fir us par sehra bandhta hai jo phool patti aur nalkiyan lagi hoti hain. Naai yeh kaam karke ek thali rakh deta hai jo sabhee rishte daar log, rupaya paisa nichhawer kar ke usi thaali men dalte hain. Iske b baad auraten  bhi nichhawar karti hain. jo naee ki bibi (nain) ka haqq hota hai aur aaj se pehle saare rishte daar jmaa ho jaate hain jo khaana khaate jaate hain aur nyota rupaye die jaate hain aur likhane vaala vo rupaye likhta hai. is khaane ka name baraat ki rotee hai. is samay adhik qabile reham dulhe ke naana maama ki halat hoti hai kyonki un par jaruri hai ki bhaat lekar aaen varna naak kat jaegi. is bhaat ki raqam ne lakhun ghar barbaad kar die. Bhaat mein yeh jaruri hai ki dulhe aur sabhi rishte daarun  ke lie kapade jode kuchh cash aur kuchh anaaj den. kuchh jagah  100 se 150 jode tak laane padte hain. agar ek joda 100 rupaye mein bhi banao to  10 se 15 hazaar rupaye thande ho gae

Bhaanji ki shadi me bhi jaruri hota hai

 ki kapadon ke jodon ke alava bhaanji ko aabhooshan (zewraat) ya baraat ki rotee mamun kare. Bahar haal ek shadi mein chaar gharon ki barbadi hoti hai. jab yeh rasmen ho chuken to ab baraat chali jiske saath bari (matlab dulhe ki taraf se dulhan ke lie bheja jaane vaala upakaran) samaan aur aage bend baaja balki kai baar aage aage naachne vaali randiyaan bhi hoti hain. gole chalae jaate hain, aatish bazzi mein aag lagti hai. Bari uss phal (fruit) ko kehte hain jo dulhe ki taraf se dulhan ko di jaati hai jo shakkar,1,man,naariyal,makhaana aadi  hota hai jo shadi ke baad dulhan ke ghar baant di jaati hain

Jab baraat dulhan ke ghar pahunchti hai 
 to pehle aatishbazzi  mein aag lagaee gaee, phir phool patti lutaee gaee, fir sabhi baraatiyun ko dulhan ki or se aam aamantrit (dawat) kiya gaya, phir nikaah hua, dulha makaan mein gaya jahaan pehle se auratun ka majma  bhirh laga hua hai is avasar par badi parda nasheen auraten bhi dulhe ke saamane bina hichak bina parda aa jaati hain fir  gaaliyon se bhare hue gaane gae jaate hain. saliyaan behnoi se qisam qisam ke mazaak karti hain (jabki saliyun ka behnoi se parda sakht jaruri) hai apne adhikaar praapt karti hain

Widai Kaise Hoti Hai widai Ke wakt Rona Chillana,
dahej dikhaaya jaata hai dahej mein 3 kisam ki baaten hoti hain, ek to dulha vaalon ke lie kapde jode matlab dulha uske maata-pita, dada,daadi,naana-naani, maama, bhaee, chaacha, taoo taee, bhishti,naee al garzz ki sabhi ko kuchh na kuchh jaroor diya jaata hai  jiska total kuchh jagah 150 se 200 jode hote hain jo bechare 1 gareeb ki halat kharab karne ke liye kafi hai magar is rasam ko karna itna important kar diya hai ki iske bina shadi hogi hi nahi 

dusri or kaath kabaad matlab tebal,kursiyan,bartan, 4 pai etc fir tisre din in sab ki (numaish) pardarshan ke baad vidaai huee, jo bahar bend baaje ka shor andar rone chillane vaalon ka zor hota hai paalki mein dulhan savaar or aage dulha ghode par savaar paalki par peson ki bochhaar balki kai jagahun par rupe aur chandi ke chhalle aur anghutgiyan bhi bakherti
hui rawangi hoti hai


Allah ho Akbar, Na sharme Nabi Na Khof e Khuda Yeh bhi nahi woh bhi nahi,

kya pavitr majalis hai ki aage bhangiyon aur chamaaron ke bache or lootne vaalon ki bheed phir baaje vaale mirasiyun ka hujoom aur jamaat E sharfa buzurg pichhe agar aankh hai or 5% bhi insaniyat baqi hai to aisi majalis mein shirakat karna bhi  jurm e azeem  samajho, apne liye na sahi apni aane vaali naslun ka kuchh to khayal kro warna jab tum iss dunya se aise karte hue chale gae to tumhari aulaaden bhi yahi karegi jaosa tumne kya to jab tak woh fin unki naslen yani jab tak iss jiti jaagti dunya me tumhari buri chaal buri rasmen fizool kharchyan or baki chijun par amal kiya jata rahega iska nuqsaan tumhari naslun ko barbaad krega magar iski sazza aapko bhi milegi kyun ki shayad aap aisi rasumaat ko khatam kardete to aapki aulaad aisa kabhi nahi karti dostun ab kahaan tak bayaan kiya jae?
   ●Mangni Aur Date Fix Ki Rasmen Or     Samaaj Ki Tabaahi Click Here
   ●Hamare Samaaj Ki Sabse Badi Galtiyan Or ilaaj Click Here


kuchh to aisi bhi  rasmen hain jinko likhne me bhi  sharm aati hai ki is articels mazmoon ko gair muslim jaatiyaan bhi padhenge to woh musalmanon ke bare mein kya raay qayam karenge! Shayad unko bhi sharam aaegi ki jo hamari rasmen thi jisko hum pura nahi kar pate magar muslim pura haqq ada kar rahe hain

Not:- Haqiqat to yeh hai ki ham apne buzurgon ke aise naakhalf aulaad hue ki hum ne unke name ko dubo diya aaj aisi rasmen to shayad  chamaaron aur bhangiyun mein bhi nahin jo muslim samajh  mein hai kaash apni har khushi or gami ko islam ke daire me rehkar manane ki koshish ki jati to aaj aise mahol paidah na hote or na hi 1 baap apne ghar par beti paidah hone se darta magar yakin maniye ki jab tak hum apne hi ghar se in tamam buri rasmun ki jhrh nahi katenge or dusru.n ka intzaar karte rahenge ki pehle woh band kare fir me karunga to yaad rakho yeh kabhi khattam nahi ho sakti kisi ne kya pyara word kaha tha ki
Jab tak meine dunya ko badalne ki koshish ki to kuchh bhi nahi tha magar jab se apne aap ko badalne laga hun to aaj me bahut hi kaamyab or zimmedaar shakhs hogaya hun
Allah kareem se duaa hai ki iss matter me jo bhi ziyadti ya kami hui hai woh bada raheem hai muaaf farmae or hamare bikhre hue samaaj ko achhi soch achha kirdaar or baland kirdaar ata farmae 

Hi my all dear readers  abhi bhi likhne ko bahut kuchh hai magar aqal mand ra ishara kafi ast yani aqal walun ke liye ishara hi kafi hota hai iss chhoti si tehreer me sochne or apne aap ko badalne me kafi madad milegi issko shaer karna na bhulen kyunki mein bhi 1 baap hun aur aap bhi to chalo sab milkar 1 new inqlab paidah karen or har shakhs ko yeh paigaam pahunchaden ki shadi hazrate fatma binte mohammade arabi ne bhi ki thi magar unhune hamari tarah koi bhi rasmen nahi ki to kya unki izaat me kami aai ji nahi balki yeh khuda aur uske sache deen ki hi dain thi ki unke nikaah me frishtun ka hujoom tha aulaad aisi paidah hui ki puri dunya jinko kabhi bhi bhula nahi sakti imam hasan husain, 

To kya hum unke naqshe qadam par nahi chal sakte agar haan to samjho deen bhi dunya bhi agar nahi to dunya to kharaab hogi hi aakhrat bhi barbad hojaenge

Naa sambhloge to mit jaoge E musalmano 
Tumhari daastan tak na hogi daastanun me


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